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Life Throws A Bricks At You….
0A young and successful executive was travelling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something. As his car passed, no children appeared, instead, a brick smashed into the Jag’s side door. He slammed on the brakes and spun the Jag back to the spot from where the brick had been thrown. He jumped out of the car, grabbed some kid and pushed him up against a parked car, shouting, “What was that all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing?” Building up a head of steam, he went on. “That’s a new car and that brick you threw is gonna cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?”
“Please, ! mister, please, I’m sorry. I didn’t know what else to do!” pleaded the youngster. “I threw the brick because no one else would stop.” Tears was dripping down the boy’s chin as he pointed around the parked car. “It’s my brother,” he said. “He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can’t lift him up.” Sobbing, the boy asked the executive,
“Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He’s hurt and he’s too heavy for me.”
Is a Boy 3.4kg 51cm
0Finally after 2 hours plus of labor pain Niangzi successfully delivered our healthy baby at noon June 4 2010. Weight 3.4kg length 51cm
It’s amazing that Niangzi did not used any kind of pain killer to deliver Zi Zhen naturally. He is very chubby and fair skin.
NiangZi in the Labor room
NiangZi's results after2 hours of labor pain
Zi Zheng Prepare to go home, still sleeping
More photo will be uploaded soon.
1 June 2010 – Last Prenatal Check Up for week 40
0Today is my last prenatal visit to my gynae to check on mummy and baby condition before give birth. As usual, doctor check on ultrasound, internal exam and baby heartbeat. My cervix openings still same at 1cm. Again, baby is sleeping in the afternoon and no movement during the heartbeat check. Doctor asked to admit for induction delivery straight away (in fact, he asked for admit for induction since 23 May 2010). Doctor said baby is now post due (if ETD – 31 May 2010 based on my last menses) and better to induce soonest as possible as according to heartbeat, baby seems inactive and worried post due baby tend to passing bowel inside which will danger to baby. I got confuse which ETD to follow as my gynae in Singapore told me that the ETD showed on the 1st ultrasound scan is more accurate which is 6 June 2010. Today I cry in afternoon and night due to loneliness, helpless, stress with lots of worries and very pessimism. Thank you Xiang Gong for his optimism, comfort and consultation, I feel much better at night.
*Today is Xiang Gong and Niang Zi anniversary of 4years & 7months together, 1year & 7months ROM 
23 May 2010 – 1st Check Up on Baby Heartbeat at Labor Room (Scary Alone)
0As usual, I went for regular weekly check up for week of 38. I lost 0.5kg at this week but baby gained weight about 500g. I was shocked but doctor said baby weight is just estimation and accuracy should within plus minus 500g. This is 1st time doctor check on my genital part to have internal examination where I felt uncomfortable due to painful and shy. My cervix has yet to open. 1st pregnancy need to take 2 jabs of tetanus. I jabbed for 2nd jab of tetanus at this visit. Due to my weight loss and my tummy got frequent contraction, doctor then sent me to labor room to check on baby’s heartbeat and my contraction frequency for about 20mins. It’s so scary when I lay down alone at labor room. My tear drop because of the scary feeling, lonely and worry if doctor ask to deliver straight away. I was thinking of Xiang Gong and talk to Zi Zhen to wait for daddy to come back. Doctor explained on the chart of baby heartbeat and contraction. He said I got contraction at every 5-10mins where this is the symptom for early delivery and asked if I want to deliver today and he can drip to induce baby out. I refused to deliver today as I have no preparation at all and Xiang Gong is not with me. Anyway, doctor arranged the next visit on 28 May 2010 and if I feel heavy contraction within these days must standby to admit anytime for delivery.
Pillow Talk to My 1st Baby
1GOD, thank you for bringing us a new life – Zi Zhen who are arriving soon in the next couple of days. Before he arrives, I would like to have some pillow talk with him when he is still in my body. My dearest Zi Zhen, thank you for the long visit and stay at my little cramped uterus for 40 weeks. It’s a good experience and direct closest bonding for two of us for these 40 weeks. Thank you for your tolerance to the little cramped space even though most the times I can feel the pain of your football kicks to my tummy but this makes us to have chances to communicate to each others. I am sorry for falling sick and in bad mood which affected to you or blaming you to make me so worries along these 40 weeks. I know Zi Zhen has strong determination to life and mummy should learn from you and be optimism as your daddy. Daddy and mummy are opening both hands and arms welcoming you to be part of our family member and little owner of Sandilands. The happiness when imagine the moment three of us have outing together at blueish sky and greenery playground. This scene will come true as soonest as your arrival. Let’s mummy hold your little hands to bring you back to our sweet home. Please be strong and help each others during labor and wish safe and smooth delivery for both of us. Daddy and mummy will always love you my dear 1st son.
Move to 3@SANDILANDS on 2 May 2010
0HUAT HUAT HUAT! Finally we moved to our new home @ Sandilands on 2 May 2010. We moved in early in the morning (ji2 shi2) and proceed with thoroughly cleaning. We had our lunch break at nearby shopping mall – Heartland Mall and shopped for some steamboat ingredients for dinner. The next day is the replacement holiday for Labor Day which falls on Saturday and we continue on cleaning for our new home. Now almost all new furniture been delivered. Our new home – Sandilands is now ready for our little owner – Zi Zhen. Hope to bring Zi Zhen back to Singapore soonest after my confinement as I have no spent much time with Sandilands also before back to Malaysia for delivery preparation.
27 May 2010 – Xiang Gong is Back
1Xiang Gong takes half day leave on 27 May to avoid heavy jam as there is Vesak Holiday for Singapore and Malaysia on 28. I was too excited for his return and cannot sleep well the whole night. Xiang Gong reached home the next day afternoon at 4.45pm. May be both of us missed each other very much, stick to each other at every seconds. iPhone tap tap domination game is one of the entertainment for us to fight for each other. Xiang Gong brought me for a walk/ waddling in the evening as mum said walking is good for delivery. As there was no sign for labor/ delivery throughout the long weekend till Sunday then Xiang Gong decides to back to Singapore to resume work on Monday and coma back again when I was in labor to welcoming our 1st baby. Thanks Xiang Gong for this return and I have enjoyed for this long weekend.
Shop Furniture for New Home 3@Sandilands
0We collected the furniture retail price from weekly newspaper to compare the price and the see if there any sales/ promotion going on. As confirmed to move in Sandilands on 2 May 2010, we started to shop new furniture for Sandilands. We have spent few weekends in searching for new bed, mattress, dining table, sofa, sofa bed, fridge, washing machine, TV console, lighting, curtain etc…it’s really tiring in searching all these goods. But we are satisfied with all the furniture purchased and it suits to Sandilands very much.
6th Pregnancy Check on 20 Mar 2010 – 28 weeks (Check if Baby got Chicken Pox infection)
0I visited to my gynae on the week after I back from Melbourne to find out if baby got any chicken pox infection. Luckily everything is normal from the ultrasound scan. But doctor told me that Zi Zhen is overweight compare to normal fetus weight progress and ask me to stop taking milk for 2 weeks and no sweet/chocolate or snack for these 2 weeks. Zi Zhen gained 500g in 3 weeks while I only gained 1 kg (mean both of us gain half!). Is it because of multi grain bread, honey comb or fruits (peach, grapes, strawberry, apples, etc) I took in the week we visited to Melbourne caused Zi Zhen overweight? After the incident of overweight, Xiang Gong not allows me to take sweet and fatty things where I have suffered a lot and sometimes curi-curi makan because of cannot tahan of the “bait”. Zi Zhen, please don’t gain the unnecessary weight or mummy will suffer for food till you give birth.
Melbourne Trip 6-14 March 2010 – Ng’s Sister got Chicken Pox
0Melbourne trip might be the last trip I can enjoy myself and spend time with Xiang Gong before Zi Zhen born. However, this trip is not much enjoyably as I expected as Ng’s sister got chicken pox on the 3rd day in Melbourne. Xiang Gong has never got chicken pox and I just had the vaccination for the past 4 years. The most panic for both of us is we scare Zi Zhen got infection to this. I was calling my gynae to consult what should I do to prevent baby from the infection. Shall I quarantine myself or keep a distance from Xiang Gong and Ng’s sister? But we stay in same apartment, same car, same dining table everyday. .. Luckily my gynae said my baby is now at 2nd trimester is safe enough and doesn’t matter if baby have infection at this period. Anyway, appreciate that Xiang Gong and Zi Zhen both have no infection after the 2nd week back from Melbourne.
5th Pregnancy Check on 27 Feb 2010 – 24 weeks (3D Ultrasound Scan)
0This was the 2nd visit to this gynae. Doctor did a 3D ultrasound scan for Zi Zhen where we can see more clearly in 3D dimension of baby feature. Zi Zhen is asleep in this photo.
2nd Trimester Week 24 3D Ultrasound Scan Image
Doctor certified that baby and mummy condition are safe for travelling to overseas. (more…)
Chinese New Year 2010 (CNY)
0This is the 2nd year I had Chinese New Year reunion dinner with NG’s family. This year we had our CNY reunion dinner at restaurant. There was lion dance and firework performance.
After finished the dinner, we head to Klang – I-city for lighting decoration.
[I-city]
There was crowded with people and car park lot is limited. We just passing by look around in car and took some pictures. At home, I got red packet from NG’s parents and elder sister in law. This year is the 1st year for both of us to give red packet to unmarried young children.
Valentine’s Day + 1st Anniversary 15 Feb 2010 – Roses Bouquet from Xiang Gong with deepest love from the sky SQ15
0This year CNY falls on Valentine’s Day. Xiang Gong gives me a surprise by ordering a bouquet of roses and send by delivery when he is away for business trip from the sky SQ15. I am so surprised and happy when I received these roses bouquet at office when I back from my lunch. All my colleagues very envy at me and I am so touch by the message from Xiang Gong:
My Dearest Niang Zi,
Our love is a journey, with a beginning but no end. We will walk the path together forever with Zi Zhen.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Happy 1st Anniversary!
Xiang Gong with deepest love from the sky SQ15
Happy Valentine's Day and Happy Anniversary
Thank you and MUAKS :-* to Xiang Gong……we will stay together forever with Zi Zhen and our future children
Xiang Gong on business trip to US 8-13 Feb 2010
0There was a last minute call from Xiang Gong’s company to fly him on business trip to US on the week before CNY 8-13 Feb 2010. Due to peak season of CNY festival, most of the airlines have limited seat availability especially in return flight. We have no choice to change our plan to drive back to Klang at midnight just only when the flight arrive to Singapore as there sure heavy jam if we depart in daytime. Damn pity to Xiang Gong as he needs to drive straight away after took about 18 hours flight and have no much time for him to adapt with local time and left side driving (he got jet lag for about 10 hours and right side driving in US). We depart at 2.30am and reached Klang at 7.50am. At night, NG’s family has CNY reunion dinner at restaurant.
Xiang Gong left his car key with me when he is away for business trip. I was asked to drive his car to work. One night, I drove to Parc Oasis to collect our mails from the new owner. The car suddenly out of battery cannot start at all! I was panic because it’s happened in late night at 11.30pm. (more…)
4th Pregnancy Check on 23 Jan 2010 – 20 weeks (See the little hands & feets!)
0Finally I look for the gynae clinic which recommended by the GP doctor whose I did my urine test for pregnancy in Oct 2009. Luckily I find this gynae doctor is the best compare to other 2 gynaes I visited. And confirm will have my following check up at this gynae clinic as understand not good to keep changing gynae doctor as each doctor needs to follow up on the baby and mummy condition to have better understanding for the pre and post preparation to delivery. Doctor did a thoroughly check to my baby and confirm again is a BOY.
I like very much the ultrasound photo for this visit as I can see clearly the feature of my baby, especially his forehead and nose which 98% alike to Xiang Gong. Sure is a handsome little boy!
