Home is where the heart is
Who can u trust completely?
How to trust people completely? Is it difficult to trust people completely?
The keyword "completely". The answer is easy and everyone have done it before.
When you are small as baby who enjoy the world as a safe, fun, care free, and full of love. Have baby or small children ever wonder about danger, hurt, betray, hate if there they have not learn it from adults?
We were born to trust everyone completely, and because of the trust that we have towards everybody that enable the bonding of relationship with parents, relatives,friends. It’s only when after we start to learn the "bad" things about the adults world. We started to "grow up" by building defence, fences, walls and wearing all kinds of masks. The learning can be from parents or whoever is care about me. Or from the painful own experiences aka "growing pains". After successfuly building up the adequete defence, the parents will see you as independent and confident person..
During this process, we start to picking up the believe that everyone is only care about themself and believe everyone must be out of something for themself if they do something out of ordinary…
Then the world become full of dangers, people out the will hurt you eventually if you are totally open and honest to them.. By building enough defence will definately stop you from getting hurt and fend of the danger… however this is in expense of receiving the care, love and good intention for people really care about you… this is critical that we must remove the defence and install a filter to allow trust to continue to flow in and out.
Let’s go back to the young and innocent heart and start to trust the people you choose to trust completely .
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