Archive for September, 2005

If you can’t be with the one you love, Love the One You’re With!

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Some says "If you can’t be With the One You Love, Love the One You‘re With!" Do you agree?

There is not absolute answer to the question above. It just shows how you see the relationship and your altitude towards love…. I’m not an expert in this subject.. I choose to agree with this.
You can say that I’m tired or give in to the situation and never insist to what I really want. I think the time frame does play a part in the choose I make…. Initially I may be believe that there may be someone out there who is meant for me.. It just a matter or whether I have the chance to meet.. or rather whether we have meet at the right time…  As time goes by… and experience more…
I start to realised I may not always get what I want.. sometime something happen along the way of going where you want.. this event triggered me to stop and look at what is in front of me… I do not want to miss anything along the way and neither to delay to get where I desire to go….  I may not know what is my next course of action : continue to go on or just stop and enjoy where you are now… The choice can only make at that moment, and there is no regrets or back off from the choosen path…. this is part of the game … called relationship..

雪狼湖 – Snow.Wolf.Lake Story line

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  这是一个传说,是一个只要你相信,便会看见的爱情传说

  宁家,一户渐趋没落的富有人家,请来了新的花
王,他的名字叫胡狼, 一个沉默寡言、又不懂与人沟通却又全心爱花惜花的人。陪伴他走每
一个孤独步伐的,就是各种美丽的花朵和一只精灵的猴子-直到他遇 上了宁静雪。一次宁家的宴会,富家子梁直为讨宁家二小姐宁静雪的
欢心,摘下狼栽的花相赠,其它宾客争相仿效,将狼的心血破坏。狼 为了护花与宾客起冲突,最后被势利的宁太太辞退;但狼爱花之情打
动了宁家两位小姐-活泼美丽的雪和沉默内向的姐姐玉凤。

  雪性格乐观,故意主动接近狼,狼被雪深深吸引着,亦首次打开自己 的内心世界,心中久违了的一份爱在一 x那盛开。同一时间,狼经常 造着同一个梦,梦中一个红衣少女受着烈火的煎熬而挣扎,虽然少女 的面目很模糊,但已隐隐然透着一种不祥的预感。

  一夜,雪和狼看见流星划过夜空,两人道出心中理想:雪愿望有天能 够成为出色的小提琴演奏家,而狼的愿望是种出一种可以代表「爱」 的花朵,他希望把这种花命名为「宁静雪」,雪的灵魂深深被感动。

  内向的姐姐玉凤,常常倾听着雪诉出有关狼的一切,心中既羡慕亦为 自己的孤独而忧伤,唯有暗暗地将自己代入其中。

  另一个晚上,雪与狼乘船出海,雪谈到希望到维也纳一间湖畔的音乐 学院进修音乐,狼亦愿相随在湖边栽种他的「宁静雪」,两人充满憧 憬地称那个湖为「雪狼湖」。平静的海面像为了见证雪和狼的承诺而 翻起大风浪,在生死一线间二人紧紧相拥,真爱无惧世间一切风雨。

 
 梁直为了要得到雪,便用诡计欺骗狼,让狼以为自己必须离开雪才可 以令她幸福。单纯而冲动的狼在一个情人节嘉年华会中故意放了一场
火,令自己锒铛入狱,并寄望雪日后可以在别人怀抱中得到幸福。犹如晴天霹雳的雪,更被梁直欺骗狼已死在狱中。雪伤心欲绝,决定远
赴维也纳修读音乐,后来在母亲怂恿下与梁直结了婚。

  雪和狼一对有情人,从此天各一方。

  在黑狱中,受梁直贿赂的狱警把狼尽情欺辱。万念俱灰的狼在绝望中 遇到位老狼仙,他送了一些爱的种子给狼,并叮嘱狼若以爱心栽种, 有天或许可以种出他的「宁静雪」。

  刑满出狱后,狼遇见一个背影甚为相似的少女。少女没有表露她就是 雪的姐姐玉凤。原来狼入狱后,她一直悉心照料狼的猴子和所种的花, 狼感到生命在遗憾中又带着点点的希望。

  在玉凤的鼓励和支持下,狼重新振作,在市集中靠卖花维生。正当玉 凤以为自己已可代替雪在狼心中位置之时,却被母亲发现了两人的交 往。狼此时才知道玉凤的身份,还有婚后的雪在维也纳意志极为消沉, 幸福和快乐不曾在门前经过。玉凤感到很内疚,鼓励狼到维也纳找雪。

 
 平安夜,在一个露天广场的演奏会中,狼终于找到雪。雪百感交集, 亦因为自己已为人妇的身份而不敢面对狼,矛盾中拔足狂奔,消失在
人群中。翌晨,街上传来小提琴家宁静雪被杀而沉尸湖底的号外消息, 狼听闻后悲痛不已。此时,老狼仙被狼的悲鸣所感动而再度出现,他
告诉狼可以利用「时间伤口」重返过去再见雪一面,但却不能改变已 发生的事实,并且若在时限过去之前不返回现实,狼将会永远流落在
时间当中。狼心中暗忖,为了要再见雪,不惜与天地一搏。

  时光倒流,回到雪死前一幕。

  雪从广场飞奔返家,质问梁直所有事情的真相。在两人激烈争吵之际, 狼从「时间伤口」赶至,在纠缠间梁直错手开了一枪,子弹送进了雪 的胸口,梁直杀死了自己最心爱的人,疯狂中叫唤着雪的名字逃去。

  痛苦万分的狼,抱着死去的雪步入湖中。虽然「时间伤口」的时限已 届,狼决意与雪永远在一起,漂流在时间永恒之中。

  日子过去,湖边终于长出了千万朵代表着雪和狼无尽爱意的花朵—「宁静雪」。

  人们都记得这一个湖的名字,叫「雪狼湖」。

雪狼湖 – Snow.Wolf.Lake Musical song list

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I have seen it. I make a last minute decision to get the ticket for this musical on last Saturday. I There was only 5 seat left, end up find out the 2 seat beside is still empty. I think I’m the last to buy the tickets for that night’s show. The location of the seat is quite nice except need to turn the neck to the left. This is very unique experience and my first time to mandarin musical. It’s quite nice to see the subtitle beside the stage. I felt the story is quite weak to link all the songs together. The funny part is that my friend actually read the similar story in high school text…. hahaha who is copying who??

《雪狼湖》序曲
              –第一幕–

              01 不老的传说
              02 命运舞会
              03 一些感觉
              04 暗里的感觉
              05 甚么是恋爱
              06 花与琴的流星
              07 两个她的秘密理想
              08 金金相印
              09 爱是永恒
              10 共度良宵
              11 狂
              12 爱狼说
              13 花花嘉年华
              14 爱是永恒
              –第二幕–
              15 四狱卒之歌
              16 葬月
              17 怎么舍得
              18 怒
              19 老狼在此
              20 种子
              21 等了又等
              22 等到了
              23 简简单单爱情观
              24 信金得救
              25 爱狼说【悼念篇】
              26 冷静
              27 终于失去你
              28 原来只要为你活一天
              29 原来只要为你活一天
              30 内疚
              31 困
              32 抱雪
              33 爱是永恒
              –剧终—
              《雪狼湖》闭幕曲

祝福

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祝福≈≈≈

不管你是否迷信,这个网页都应该读一下,好吗?
这是密教图腾上的文字。
读了这封信后的四天内,你会有好运来临。
把这封信邮寄给几个你想要祝福的人。
有许许多多人,也许你已经淡忘了,
如果仍然在你的心里,他们也一样会得到幸运。

我不会给你钱,因为我没有。
给你生活的忠告:
多吃些粗粮.
给别人比他们自己期许的更多,并且用心去做
熟记你喜欢的诗歌
不要轻信你听到的每件事,不要花光你的所有,不要想睡多久就睡多久。
无论何时说“我爱你”,请真心实意。
无论何时说“对不起”,请看着对方的眼睛。
相信一见钟情。
永远不要忽视别人的梦想。
深情热烈地爱,也许你会受伤,但这是使人生完整的唯一方法。
用一种明确的方法解决争议,不要冒犯。
永远不要以貌取人。慢慢地说,但要迅速地想。
当别人问你不想回答的问题时,笑着说“你为什么想知道?”
记住那些敢于承担最大风险的人才能得到最深的爱和最大的成就。
给妈妈打电话。如果不行,至少在心里想着她。
当别人打喷嚏时,说一声“菩萨保佑”。
如果你失败了,千万不要忘记汲取教训。
记住三个“尊”:尊重你自己;尊重别人;保持尊严,对自己的行为负责。
不要让小小的争端损毁了一段伟大的友谊。
无论何时你发现自己做错了,竭尽所能去弥补。动作要快!
无论什么时候打电话,摘起话筒的时候请微笑,因为对方能感觉到!
找一个你爱聊的人结婚,因为当年龄大了以后,你会发觉喜欢聊天是一个人最大的优点。
找点时间,单独呆会儿。
欣然接收改变,但是不要摒弃你的个人理念。
记住,沉默是金。
多看点书,少看点电视。
过一种高尚而诚实的生活。当你年老时回想起过去,你就能再一次享受人生。
相信上帝,但是别忘了锁门。
家庭的融洽氛围是难能可贵的。
尽你的全力让家平顺和谐。
当你和你亲近的人吵嘴的时候,试着就事论事,不要扯出那些陈芝麻烂谷子的事。
不要摆脱不了昨天。
多注意言下之意。
和别人分享你的知识,那才是永恒之道!
善待我们的地球。
不要愚弄自然母亲。
忙自己该做的事。
不要相信接吻时从不闭眼的伴侣。
每年至少去一个你从没去过的地方。
如果你赚了很多钱,在活着的时候多行善事。这是你能得到的最好回报。
记住有时候,不是最好的收获也是一种好运。
深刻理解所有的规则,合理地更新他们。
记住:最好的关系存在于对别人的爱胜于对别人的索求之上。
回头看看你发誓取得的目标,然后评判你到底有多成功。
无论是烹调还是爱情,都用百分之百的负责态度对待,但是不要期求太多的回报。

不要把这篇教义放在手边。这篇经典会在96小时后离开你。
把他们的复制品分发出去。看看会发生什么?
在今后的四天里,你会收到一个令你高兴的惊喜。
这是真的,即使你现在不信。

0-4 人: 你会经历一个小小的变化。
5-9 人:
你的生活会按照你期望的方向改进。
9-14 人: 在今后4天,你至少得到5个快乐的惊喜。
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人以上:你的生活会发生惊人的变化,你的美梦将会成真。

因为陌生,所以勇敢,因为距离,所以美丽。

┏━━┓我       ●   ●╭○╮ 我┏━━┓
┃天长┃想°☆ /█∨█\ ☆ 爱┃曾经┃

┃地久┃你       ∏    ∏      你┃拥有┃
┗━━┛ ·☆爱你一生☆·     ┗━━┛

Personality quiz

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I just wonder what in the world will people so crazy about the personality quiz and test.
Like what u choose something is what you feel about me.. ops.. did I miss anything again here.

  • Is this the way ppl want to ensure someone is really have feeling to me..
  • Or is this so called the way to discover the "true self"?..
  • Or is it another way to confirm that someone really have feel to me??
  • Or worse it is a very effective way to collect evidences that some on don’t really have feel to me?

To me it is just represent the choice you make at that scenario that you may not able to relate. Without the experience yourself into that scenario, it only represent the idea conditions.
It only reflect on the the way you make the choice at that current moment… nothing much about the end results..

Of course I do find some on the test really reflect on how I feel at that moment..

心理测试游戏

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一、宝箱中的宝物

  历尽千辛万苦你终于找到宝箱.按耐不住激动的心情你打开宝箱.里面会有什么呢?
A、钻石宝珠多多喔
B、金块满满
C、是一份藏宝图
D、已经被谁开过里面空空的耶

二、喝不喝水

你来到沙漠地带,你已经渴了,此时路边有杯水
A、看都不看就走
B、喝光再跑
C、只喝一半把杯子带着走
D、喝一点放回原处

三、没带钥匙时怎么办?

当你回到家时发现身上没带钥匙,你会怎么办?
A、找锁匠开门
B、找可能的入口翻进去
C、等家人回来开门

四、从说话看你的个性

如果你讲话讲到一半,有人打断你的话,转移话题,你会:
A、把剩下的话吞下去,当做没讲
B、等对方讲完,再接下去讲
C、跟对方抢着讲,看谁声音大
D、马上要求对方尊重你,不要插话

五、喜欢一天中的什么时候

  根据心理学家的研究,人们对一天里的不同时段,会有不同程度的喜好,因而也显示出每个人的性格。你喜欢一天中的哪段时光呢?
A、喜欢上午
B、喜欢中午
C、喜欢下午
D、喜欢日落
E、喜欢晚上
F、喜欢午夜

G、喜欢黎明
H、没有特定的时间

 

六、白雪公主

若要上台表演白雪公主的故事,你希望演哪个角色?
A、七个小矮人
B、白雪公主
C、白马王子
D、继母

七、爱吃哪种水果

园艺专家往往喜欢根据一个人吃水果的口味爱好,推断此人的性格。
A、爱吃桃子
B、爱吃梨子
C、爱吃葡萄
D、爱吃西瓜
E、爱吃李子
F、爱吃草莓
G、爱吃樱桃

八、从图形看性格

你喜欢怎样的图形呢,可以从中看出你的个性特点哟!
A、正方形
B、长方形
C、三角形
D、圆形
E、曲线

九、幻想力测试

  图上面并不是什么新潮派或是印象派的绘画,只是一些墨迹而已。请您只看一眼,也就是一瞬间便想象它是什么东西。无论把它想象成什么都可以。您也许会想象它是:

  A.两个在旋舞中的少女或者仙女。

  B.云彩状的虫子,或者云彩状的怪兽之类。

  C.什么也看不出来,只是一团墨迹而已。

Bon Voyager to WK

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Another good team member leave the company last Friday. WK have served the company for less than a year. However he have contributed significantly to the projects that I in-charge.

I have never need to worry or intervent the tasks that I assigned to him. WK always hit and exceed my expectation when the tasks completed. WK and I have gone thru may long hours and contribute his personal time in order to meet the tight schedule. The thing I appreciate most is that WK always the last man who stand by me to complete the last minute testing and changing before the production.

I see him as someone with great potential in his jobs and I wish WK all the best in the next job.
Thanks for the service and support.

Bon Voyager to HT

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HT is finally leaving today….
I have a very nice gift from HT a pin with my intial. I enjoyed working with HT for the past 1 years.
HT have very sharp eyes and cheerful altitude towards everything. All the request to HT have been handled properly and HT is very patient to any kind of ppl and seldom HT will lost the temper.

I have passed the card I bought yesterday with blessing and a note to acknowledge the support and contribution to my past projects.

HT is down to earth, friendly and speak what is true in mind. I kind of missing some who will once a while make my days whenever I wear something nice and looks good.

Thanks to HT.

The Real KC

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Have a lengthy discussion with my Angel last night. We have very deep conversion to discover the real KC… The true KC is known as someone who don’t honor his words. This is a fact that I have no way to hide… I did not keep my agreement, make empty promise, said a lot and no action as what my Angel see me……. I hate to admit this all true.. and the hard part is my words no longer have any impact anymore… Each of my words is followed by a lot of question mark ???? in my Angel’s ear..

I have long time never receive such a direct and honest feedback from anyone. I acknowledged the courage and honesty of AGCE to give me a wake up call…. I appreciated it. And thanks for giving this opportunity to learn more about myself. And how ppls feel and see KC.

It is sad to know that I have not following my principle to upheld my integrity and be a trushworthy person. I know it is easier said than done. I have to let my actions to speck for myself….. And please stay tune…

I have bad habit to interrupt ppl and want to be right. I’m try to make everything hard for the ppls as well as myself. I should have more cheerful and smile more.. My world is not really that bad as I think.. At least I have my angel’s support.

This feedback is invalueable for me. It give me a chance to stop and relook at myself how am I living my life to align to my principles, I have choose to stay align back to my principles and make thing easy for everyone… 5….. 4…. 3… 2.. 1. Start from now

Lang Tengah Island 3D2N -8/26 to 8/28-

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Lang Tengah Island Trip – The Nite before (8/25)       <Prev Dive>

Need to handle some business stuff in last minutes. I took 1/2 day leave to make sure I’m on time.
I feel very bad to leave my buddy alone going back to KL. However due to bad last minute planning that is not in my control. We delivered the stuff late for 3 hours. Yet the results is not very convincing.

We handled the stuff and on the way back to KL around 5pm. I felt real bad as not being ontime for 2 commitments; 1. Delivery the stuff to my potential client on time; 2. Broken agreement to accompany my buddy back to KL.. Sigh… :(

After reached KL and wait for the rest of divers to pack thing, showers, collect gears, pick up other divers. We then only fetch my buddy around 11pm.. obviously late again. :( (

We drove from KL to KT via Kuantan, my instructor drove the 1st leg to Kuantan and I took over from Kuantan around 4am and reached KT Airport to meet the rest of divers around 8am on day 1.

And finally Venice past my birthday present to me in the Airport. It’s was a surprise for me when open up the present….
"Home is Where the Heart is"

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This is the photo I took on the gift I received. A door hanger with a home inside a heart. And a model of the home. Last but not least is at another side of birthday card. She have spend a lot of time a efforts in getting lecturer to translate a birthday greeting to Japanese which she just start learning 2 months ago. I’m touch by this birthday greeting after she show me the original message. ‘Cos I have hard time to understand the message in Japanese as well.

Lang Tengah Island Trip – Day 1 (8/26)

After we get everyone accounted and start to move on to the Maran Jetty around 9:35am Waiting for ferry to Lang TengahUnfortunately we have to wait for the next ferry to Lang Tengah 10:30am
At last we landed on Lang Tengah around noon. 

Lang Tengah Beach with fine sand

We can felt the fine sand is like a powder, and along the beach have only 2 resorts we stay in Redang Lang resorts. After the orientation and lunch we set off for the first dive.

Dive 1 – Redang Lang House Reef – 6.7M 51BT 2pm? -
The first shore dive to Lang Tengah House Reef. Learned the shore dive technique. Adventure dive – Navigation Dive
We praticed with compass on land before the dive. Quite easy to do, when we do the same thing underwater, I start to flip upward when hits corals, after second try, thanks to the low visibility instructor give a pass sign eventhough I did not complete the triangle.

Spoted crown fish in Anemone Coral.

Dive 2 – Redang Lang House Reef – 10.5m 55BT 4:36pm -
The dive with my buddy alone at shallow water, this is a very good dive indeed as we spend very long time underwater together and chase a pair of yellow fish. Until our instructor instruct us to leave the water way used by boats. 55 minutes Buttom Time my longest dive so far.
This is the adventure dive for Underwater Naturalist

Spoted Reef : Blue Coral, Funnel Weed, Staghorn Coral, Brain Coral, Mushroom Coral
Spoted Fish : Foxface Fish, Parrot Fish, Titan Trigger Fish

Dive 3 – Karang Nibung Laut – 28.9m 33BT 9:18am -
The Deep Dive. Deepest dive so far at 28.8m. Kind of not use to the presure and the negative buoyancy. The low light condition cause the low visibility that keep us stick to the group. We bring an egg down to play with the compressed egg yolk. The Air consumption is too fast that I barely make the 3 minutes safety stop before surface with almost empty tank.

Dive 4 – Batu Kuching – 19.8m 40BT 3:41pm -
The leisure boat dive and my pity buddy have hard time to catch up with the group. Yet like to swim away fast when I slow down to enjoy the corals and fishes.

This is the dive of missing latch of fin, I noticed it just in time the boat is leaving jetty. Dive resorts Dive Master go back and find a spare fin latch for me. The second thing is I broke the tank banger the strap broke when I pulled to hard.

After complete the dive, my buddy and I decide to do snorkeling with wet suit and fins. The movement is quite smooth and we swim side by side together explore many reef and fish together.

Dive (5) – Aborted Nite dive – 0m 0BT 7:36pm -
The only nite dive planned was aborted due to bad weather…. sigh..
Eric owned us 1 dive to be returned in Sipadan trip

Home is Where the Heart is

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Thank you so much My Angel!!

This is the best gift I have ever received so far. I really touched by the gift and the birthday message.
I’m very surprised by the time and effort you spent in getting this perfect gift for me.It means a lot to me. I felt very warm, touch and very happy have to this meaningful gift from you.

I have never though of someone will go through that many troubles and difficulties just to prepare a gift for me, until I received your present. I’m really appreciate your thoughtful and willingness to go all the way to get it done.

Thanks for giving me this wonderful "home" I feel warm, joy, happiness, care and love from this home. I believe I can only give my heart to you in return of this present.

"Home is Where the Heart is"
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This is the photo I took on the gift I received. A door hanger with a
home inside a heart. And a model of the home. Last but not least is at
another side of birthday card. She have spend a lot of time a efforts
in getting lecturer to translate a birthday greeting to Japanese which
she just start learning 2 months ago. I’m touch by this birthday
greeting after she show me the original message. ‘Cos I have hard time
to understand the message in Japanese as well.

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